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        <h2 id=""><a href="#" class="headerlink" title=""></a></h2><p>  19岁的李家倩，你好：</p>
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<p>  很高兴你又长大了一岁，其实很久以前就想写这封信，但不知道怎样去写不知道怎样去跟自己交流，这段时间发生了太多的事情，虽然我总是说磨难会给我非尘世的享受，会给我带来各种各样的锻炼，但这些锻炼终归是痛苦的，而我不害怕他，我以此为乐，至少在我写这封信的时候，有短暂的自豪感，这种自豪感足以带我度过一个个漫漫长夜，俞敏洪说人生充满苦难，人要在苦难中寻找属于自己的一片乐土。</p>
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<p>  任由自卑漫上心头，没错我是自卑的，在自己的信中我要做真实的自己，在以后的生活中我也要做真实的自己，有时候只有书籍能够填补我内心的空洞，我应该多出去走一走，我大一的时候我就对自己说过，此心不应拖泥带水，此心不应有归属感，一直保持一颗孤独远行的心。<code>然而，那亲情、友情、爱情的火焰再次在我的心中绽放，再一次的体会到身边的朋友，家中的亲人，身旁的爱人，所带给我的那一种感动。让我在一次体会到了什么是真正的情谊，有一堆犯二的人陪我疯，有一个家庭在慢慢变得美好，有一个人🐷在我身旁始终给我向前的动力 ，还有一个“我“在慢慢的长大，体会了一点点生活味道的我，准备迎来新生活的挑战。</code>许久之后我明白了三帅哥所说的“时间会冲淡一些东西“我早该体会到的，而我时时的欺骗自己，而且沉浸在自己的欺骗中，我把这种欺骗叫做”美好的回忆“，在这回忆中出现的美好的人我都鲜鲜明明的记得，把每一个脸孔，每一个笑容，以及每一曲不着调调的歌曲，我都把他放在这里❤。<code>生活还在远行，生活还在继续，一些人我终究会对你们傻，即使往后将来，老去，我都会去理解你们的深度，愿你都有一颗无善无恶的心，保持着内心的平和、宁静和憧憬。</code><br>  在此我希望，19岁你要做一个不动声色的大孩子了，嗯，把以前种种不成熟的行为收一收，即使你不想这样，但你确实要改改自己的浮躁与飘忽不定，把一颗心静下来<code>“静以修身，俭以养德“”非宁静无以致远“</code>这些先人的智慧都在教我们同一个道理”把冷板凳坐好，厚积薄发，只有人有了量上面的改变，人才会有质的飞跃。就像姑姑教我，<code>“人终要耐得住寂寞才能守得住繁华”</code>这句一样。<br>  然后希望19岁的你向以前的你一样，<code>每天都花些时间去读书，去反思，去锻炼自己的身体，时时刻刻保持强壮的自己，把每一个经历每一个思想的闪过记录下来，</code>或许经历了生离死别之后，我对人生的理解加深了，人只有每一天不留遗憾，这一辈子才不会留遗憾。愿你的每一天都保持着一颗好奇心，保持着对生活趣味的发掘与“制造“，做一个有情趣的精致男孩， 嗯，高三语文老师说我“年轻人，怎么一天到晚老气横秋的，没有一点年轻人的朝气…”之类的话。老师显然是观察到了什么，我也一直记得我的语文老师的话，这段时间算是改了不少吧，虽然我还是没有达到该有的境界，但这一路上，我希望你绝对不要再去颓废自己。<br>  在学习这个问题上，<code>我希望你应该保持一颗好学的心，每一个小的方面都应该去学习，实践，</code>缺少实践是我的一大弊病，把姿态放低去学更多的东西，丝毫，不觉得询问别人是一种耻辱，即使我以前做不到，但是今后的你一定要做到，因为只有这样你才能学到更多的东西。</p>
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<p>十九岁是一个美好的年纪，未来一片广阔草原，等着你去闯荡，大人的生活不易，在这里划一刀，十九岁之前的我与你毫不相干，这一刀晚到了整整一年，祝君从不孤独从不迷茫。</p>
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<p>2018年11月18日星期日<br>李家倩<br>写于安院105宿舍（旁边有只🐷在玩我帽子上的绳子）</p>
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            var $numbering = $('<ul/>').addClass('pre-numbering ' + widther).attr("unselectable","on");
            $(this).addClass('has-numbering ' + widther)
                    .parent()
                    .append($numbering);
            for(var i=1;i<=lines;i++){
                $numbering.append($('<li/>').text(i));
            }
        });
        

        /*访问数量*/
        
        $.getScript("//busuanzi.ibruce.info/busuanzi/2.3/busuanzi.pure.mini.js");
        

        /*代码高亮，行号对齐*/
        $('.pre-numbering').css('line-height',$('.has-numbering').css('line-height'));

        
        
    }

    /*打赏页面隐藏与展示*/
    
    function dashangToggle() {
        $(".shang_box").fadeToggle();
        $(".hide_box").fadeToggle();
    }
    

</script>

<!--加入行号的高亮代码块样式-->

<style>
    pre{
        position: relative;
        margin-bottom: 24px;
        border-radius: 10px;
        border: 1px solid #e2dede;
        background: #FFF;
        overflow: hidden;
    }
    code.has-numbering{
        margin-left: 30px;
    }
    code.has-numbering.widther{
        margin-left: 35px;
    }
    .pre-numbering{
        margin: 0px;
        position: absolute;
        top: 0;
        left: 0;
        width: 20px;
        padding: 0.5em 3px 0.7em 5px;
        border-right: 1px solid #C3CCD0;
        text-align: right;
        color: #AAA;
        background-color: #fafafa;
    }
    .pre-numbering.widther {
        width: 35px;
    }
</style>

<!--自定义样式设置-->
<style>
    
    
    .nav {
        width: 542px;
    }
    .nav.fullscreen {
        margin-left: -542px;
    }
    .nav-left {
        width: 120px;
    }
    
    
    @media screen and (max-width: 1468px) {
        .nav {
            width: 492px;
        }
        .nav.fullscreen {
            margin-left: -492px;
        }
        .nav-left {
            width: 100px;
        }
    }
    
    
    @media screen and (max-width: 1024px) {
        .nav {
            width: 492px;
            margin-left: -492px
        }
        .nav.fullscreen {
            margin-left: 0;
        }
        .nav .hide-list.fullscreen {
            left: 492px
        }
    }
    
    @media screen and (max-width: 426px) {
        .nav {
            width: 100%;
        }
        .nav-left {
            width: 100%;
        }
    }
    
    
    .nav-right .title-list nav a .post-title, .nav-right .title-list #local-search-result a .post-title {
        color: #383636;
    }
    
    
    .nav-right .title-list nav a .post-date, .nav-right .title-list #local-search-result a .post-date {
        color: #5e5e5f;
    }
    
    
    .nav-right nav a.hover, #local-search-result a.hover{
        background-color: #e2e0e0;
    }
    
    

    /*列表样式*/
    
    .post .pjax article .article-entry>ol, .post .pjax article .article-entry>ul, .post .pjax article>ol, .post .pjax article>ul{
        border: #e2dede solid 1px;
        border-radius: 10px;
        padding: 10px 32px 10px 56px;
    }
    .post .pjax article .article-entry li>ol, .post .pjax article .article-entry li>ul,.post .pjax article li>ol, .post .pjax article li>ul{
        padding-top: 5px;
        padding-bottom: 5px;
    }
    .post .pjax article .article-entry>ol>li, .post .pjax article .article-entry>ul>li,.post .pjax article>ol>li, .post .pjax article>ul>li{
        margin-bottom: auto;
        margin-left: auto;
    }
    .post .pjax article .article-entry li>ol>li, .post .pjax article .article-entry li>ul>li,.post .pjax article li>ol>li, .post .pjax article li>ul>li{
        margin-bottom: auto;
        margin-left: auto;
    }
    

    /* 背景图样式 */
    
    


    /*引用块样式*/
    

    /*文章列表背景图*/
    
    .nav-right:before {
        content: ' ';
        display: block;
        position: absolute;
        left: 0;
        top: 0;
        width: 100%;
        height: 100%;
        opacity: 0.3;
        background: url("https://i.loli.net/2019/07/22/5d3521411f3f169375.png");
        background-repeat: no-repeat;
        background-position: 50% 0;
        -ms-background-size: cover;
        -o-background-size: cover;
        -moz-background-size: cover;
        -webkit-background-size: cover;
        background-size: cover;
    }
    

    
</style>







</html>
